She'll start off by saying things along the lines of "I was never a fan of anyone, I never chased anyone or got distracted.". She'll say stuff like "So what?". Some specific examples are me showing her THE ARK's Light Music Video and her saying how the child is so disrespectful to her mother at the start, which hurt cause I want a relationship like that with my mother. She watched a show with Wu Yifan/Kris as the Judge and said he was crap and then went on to say "I bet Luhan isn't much better" despite the fact she knows that I'm a big fan of Luhan; it's like she's purposefully trying to hurt me. I was talking about how good Yuzuru Hanyu and Javier Fernandez's relationship is, how they are like brothers and are really close and how I want a friend like that. She then destroys it by saying things like "They probably aren't that close, it's all an act" , "Don't try to have a relationship like that cause it's unrealistic", "Noone is that close".
Why can't she just let me be happy for a couple of minutes? Why? Why can't she just humour me?